Estate Sales & Inherited Property Guide
Navigating the sale of a loved one's home is emotionally and legally complex. This guide walks you through every step—from probate to closing—with compassion and clarity.
Understanding Estate Sales
An estate sale in real estate refers to selling a home that belonged to someone who has passed away. As an executor or heir, you have legal and emotional responsibilities to navigate.
What Makes Estate Sales Different?
Unlike a typical home sale, estate sales involve legal processes (probate), emotional complexity (grieving while making decisions), and practical challenges (clearing decades of belongings). You're often making decisions for someone else, with multiple family members involved, and under time pressure.
Who's Involved in an Estate Sale?
Executor / Personal Representative
The person named in the will (or appointed by the court) who has legal authority to manage and sell estate assets.
- Signs all real estate documents
- Makes decisions on behalf of estate
- Responsible for paying estate debts
- Distributes proceeds to beneficiaries
Beneficiaries / Heirs
Those who inherit from the estate—typically children, spouse, or other family members named in the will.
- May have opinions on sale decisions
- Receive proceeds after debts paid
- May need to agree on personal property
- Sometimes involved in cleanout
Probate Court
The court that oversees the estate settlement process, validates the will, and grants authority to the executor.
- Issues Letters Testamentary
- May need to approve sale price
- Resolves disputes between heirs
- Closes estate when complete
⚠️ Don't Skip Probate
You typically cannot legally sell a deceased person's home without going through probate (or having a trust/TOD deed in place). Trying to sell without proper authority can void the sale and create legal liability. Always verify your legal standing before listing.
The Estate Sale Process
From the day you're named executor to the day you distribute proceeds, here's what to expect when selling an inherited property in Iowa.
Secure the Property (Week 1)
Your first priority is protecting the home and its contents. This includes physical security, insurance, and documentation.
Immediate Actions
- Change locks if keys are unaccounted for
- Notify homeowners insurance of the death
- Stop mail and secure valuables
- Document everything with photos/video
- Maintain utilities to prevent damage
Open Probate (Weeks 1-4)
File the will with probate court (Polk County for Des Moines area) and petition to be appointed executor. The court will issue "Letters Testamentary" giving you legal authority.
Key Steps
- File original will with probate court
- Complete executor petition paperwork
- Publish notice to creditors
- Receive Letters Testamentary
- Open estate bank account
Get Property Appraised (Weeks 2-4)
You'll need a fair market value for estate purposes and to establish the "stepped-up basis" for tax purposes. This is different from a listing price.
Why This Matters
- Establishes date-of-death value
- Creates stepped-up cost basis for heirs
- Required for estate inventory
- Helps set realistic sale price
Prepare the Home (Weeks 4-12)
This is often the most time-consuming step. It involves clearing belongings, distributing personal property, making repairs, and getting the home ready for sale.
Preparation Tasks
- Sort and distribute personal property
- Hire estate sale company or donate items
- Complete necessary repairs
- Deep clean and stage if needed
- Address any code or safety issues
List and Sell (Weeks 8-16)
Work with a realtor experienced in estate sales to list, market, negotiate offers, and navigate any court approvals if required.
Estate Sale Specifics
- Disclose estate sale status to buyers
- Title shows deceased owner (normal)
- Executor signs all documents
- May need court approval for price
- Allow extra time for closings
Close Estate & Distribute (Weeks 16-24)
After the sale closes, pay remaining estate debts, file final tax returns, get court approval to close the estate, and distribute proceeds to beneficiaries.
Final Steps
- Pay all estate debts and expenses
- File estate income tax return
- Prepare final accounting
- Petition court to close estate
- Distribute remaining funds to heirs
Work With Professionals
Estate sales benefit from a team: a probate attorney for legal guidance, an SRES® realtor for the property sale, and possibly a senior move manager or estate sale company for cleanout. The investment in expertise often saves money and stress.
Cleanout & Preparation
A lifetime of belongings needs to be sorted, distributed, sold, donated, or discarded. This is often the most overwhelming part of an estate sale.
Estate Sale Companies
Professional companies that come in, price items, run a sale, and handle the selling. They typically take 30-40% of proceeds.
- Best for homes with valuable items
- They handle pricing and selling
- Usually 2-3 day sales
- What doesn't sell may need disposal
Cleanout Services
Companies that remove everything from the home—useful when items have little resale value or you need fast turnover.
- Quick and complete cleanout
- They haul, donate, and dispose
- Flat fee or by truckload
- Good for time-pressured situations
Donation Coordination
Many items can be donated to charities. Some will pick up; others require drop-off. Get receipts for tax deductions.
- Furniture banks for large items
- Habitat ReStore accepts many items
- Clothing and housewares to Goodwill
- Get donation receipts for estate taxes
Senior Move Managers
Professionals who specialize in helping with estate transitions. They coordinate everything from sorting to move-out.
- Project manage the entire cleanout
- Compassionate and experienced
- Work with families remotely
- Coordinate all vendors
Sell As-Is vs. Prepare the Home
Selling As-Is
List the property in current condition, often to investors or flippers. Faster and less stress, but typically nets 10-20% less. Good for out-of-state executors, homes needing major work, or when time is critical.
Preparing the Home
Clean, repair, and stage before listing to maximize sale price. More work and investment upfront, but often yields higher net proceeds. Best when home is in decent condition and you have time.
⚠️ Don't Over-Improve
Not all repairs pay off in estate sales. Focus on safety issues, cleaning, and cosmetics. Major renovations rarely recoup their cost. Consult with your realtor on what improvements—if any—make financial sense.
The Emotional Journey
Selling a parent's home while grieving is one of the hardest things you'll do. The practical work happens alongside deep emotional processing. Both are valid and important.
Grief While Working
You may find yourself crying over a coffee mug or feeling overwhelmed opening a closet. This is normal. Grief doesn't pause for logistics. Build in time for emotional moments—they're part of the process.
Family Conflict
Stress brings out family dynamics. Siblings may disagree on price, timeline, or who gets what. As executor, you have legal authority—but diplomacy helps. Consider family meetings or mediation if needed.
Overwhelm & Guilt
The sheer volume of decisions can be paralyzing. You may feel guilty discarding things or selling the family home. Remember: your loved one wanted to make this easier for you, not harder.
Relief & Closure
Many executors feel a surprising sense of relief when the sale closes. The burden lifts. The chapter closes. This doesn't dishonor your loved one—it honors the completion of your responsibility.
Give Yourself Grace
There's no perfect way to do this. You will make decisions you later question. Items will get donated that maybe shouldn't have. That's okay. Your loved one would want you to get through this intact, not to preserve every object perfectly.
Tips for Emotional Wellbeing
Work in short sessions—2-3 hours prevents emotional exhaustion.
Bring a friend—someone who can provide perspective and support.
Take photos of meaningful items before letting go.
Delegate where possible—you don't have to do everything yourself.
Set boundaries with family about decision-making timelines.
Seek support—grief counseling or support groups can help.
Financial Considerations
Estate sales have unique financial and tax implications. Understanding these can save money and prevent surprises.
Stepped-Up Basis
When you inherit property, your cost basis "steps up" to fair market value at the date of death. You only pay capital gains on appreciation after inheritance—not on the original purchase price. This can save significant taxes.
Iowa Inheritance Tax
Iowa has an inheritance tax (separate from estate tax), but close relatives (spouse, parents, children, grandchildren) are exempt. More distant relatives may owe 5-15% on amounts over $25,000.
Probate Costs
Iowa probate costs include court fees, attorney fees (often 2-4% of estate), and executor fees (if claimed). These are paid from estate assets before distribution to heirs.
Estate Sale Costs
Standard real estate commissions apply (typically 5-6%), plus any repairs, cleanout costs, and carrying costs (mortgage, taxes, utilities) while the home is being sold.
Estate Income Tax
If the estate earns income (rent, interest) before distribution, a separate estate income tax return may be required. Consult a CPA for estates with ongoing income.
Paying Estate Debts
Before distributing proceeds to heirs, the executor must pay valid estate debts—mortgage, credit cards, medical bills, final expenses. Creditors have a limited time to file claims.
⚠️ Get Professional Tax Advice
Estate tax situations are complex and the rules change frequently. Work with a CPA or tax attorney familiar with Iowa estates. The cost of professional advice is usually less than the cost of mistakes.
For Out-of-State Executors
Managing a parent's estate from another state is increasingly common—and completely doable with the right support team on the ground.
You Don't Have to Fly Back Repeatedly
Many families worry they'll need to make multiple trips to Iowa to handle the estate. With modern technology and trusted local partners, I help out-of-state executors manage most of the process remotely—saving time, money, and stress.
Property Check-Ins
Regular visits to check on the home, collect mail, ensure security, and document condition.
Video Updates
Live or recorded video tours so you can see the home and progress without traveling.
Vendor Coordination
I meet and manage contractors, cleanout crews, and estate sale companies on your behalf.
Document Management
Digital signing for most real estate documents. I'll guide you through each step.
Showing Attendance
I personally attend showings when you can't be there, providing detailed feedback.
Trip Coordination
When you do visit, I'll help maximize your time with a focused to-do list and scheduled meetings.
Your Boots on the Ground
As your local SRES® specialist, I become your eyes, ears, and hands in Des Moines. You make the decisions; I execute them. This partnership lets you fulfill your executor duties without putting your own life on hold.
Frequently Asked Questions
Most estate sales in Iowa take 3-6 months from opening probate to closing. Simple estates with a clear will and cooperative heirs move faster. Contested estates or those requiring significant cleanout take longer.
Usually yes, unless the property was held in a living trust, had a transfer-on-death deed, or was jointly owned with rights of survivorship. Probate gives you legal authority to sell on behalf of the estate.
Yes. Many estate properties sell as-is to investors or buyers looking for a project. You may net less than a fully prepared home, but it saves time, money, and stress—especially for out-of-state executors.
When you inherit property, your cost basis "steps up" to the fair market value at the date of death. This means you only pay capital gains tax on appreciation after inheritance, not the original purchase price.
The estate is responsible for mortgage payments until the property sells. If the estate lacks funds, heirs may need to contribute or the property may need to sell quickly to avoid foreclosure.
If you're the executor, you have authority to sell if it's in the estate's best interest. However, family disputes can complicate things. Mediation or a partition action (court-ordered sale) may be necessary.
Seniors Real Estate Specialist
Compassionate Estate Sale Support
As an SRES® certified specialist, I have specialized training in helping families navigate estate sales with patience and compassion. I understand the emotional weight of selling a parent's home—and I'm here to make it easier.
Need Help With an Estate Sale?
Whether you're just starting the process or stuck in the middle, I'm here to help. Let's talk about your situation—with no pressure and no obligation.
Sarah Ingles, Realtor® SRES®
Smart Move Des Moines
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